For the most part, Mary is the happiest little girl. She goes about singing and humming. She lives her life to the soundtrack of Dumbo--humming the tunes as she goes about whatever she is doing. Unfortunately this didn't carry on to the soccer field. Her first game was this last weekend and it was worse than I ever imagined. I thought she might just lay on the grass and pick dandelions or something...that would have been great. The game started and for the first few moments she just stood there looking around. The next few moments she ran with the pack. I was feeling proud. She even kicked the ball. But then she started getting mad that she wasn't able to kick the ball more. Anger turned to overwhelming sadness. The tears started. The wailing came. It didn't stop for the rest of the game. The other team would score and she would run off the field crying. She would sit for a few minutes and we would talk her into going back in. Then her team would score. The same thing happened. Then it was her turn to kick off...she kicked it then got knocked down and someone stepped on her hand. Once she got up--same thing happened. This happened over and over again until the end of the game. Nobody else cried or ran off the field. Then when the treats came out she burst into tears again. They had brought Cars fruit snacks which is a "boy snack" not a "girl snack." Needless to say it was pretty rough. But we will go back on Wednesday because we aren't quitters!
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| Before the game--she was playing but excellent foreshadowing. |




Sounds like a rough soccer game! I hope it gets better.
ReplyDeleteYup, that game sounds like it was harder on you guys than on Mary! But she'll get the hang of it. Somehow I believe that because we all played soccer so it has to be in her blood, right? :)
ReplyDeleteI love how aware Anna is - and seems to have been since the first time I met her. It's like she's just absorbing all the information around her and when she finally speaks will be some kind of modern era Shakespeare! :)